I am currently 14wks along and have an appt w/ my OB on Wed and the High Risk specialist on fri. I know I'll have an ultra sound on wed (hopefully my doc will print out more pics out for me to post)! I know most people go to fetal imaging between 18-20 weeks for the full anatomical ultrasound and find out the sex then; but I am really hoping we're able to see the sexes sooner in the doctor's office (though their equipment isn't as high-tech).
So far, I have not felt any fetal(s) movement! I am anxiously awaiting that. Right now I am dealing with all of the "other symptoms" of pregnancy. I had acid reflux but it is sort of fading (knock-on-wood), I have some back soreness, extreme fatigue, breast tenderness, and I have gained about 6-7 lbs already. I would have to say the worst thing is that I never feel fully alert and awake!
Like I mentioned before, I would like to keep this blog as honest as possible... so, with that said... I am really in a good state of mind overall. But i definitely still feel overwhelmed- I know I will be an amazing mom to these babies and that Adam and I have a great support system, but I guess the unknowns still freak me out a bit. I have done SOO much research on triplets (not that there is a lot of resources) but I guess the ideas of bed rest, a c-section, dealing with preemies and a toddler are still somewhat consuming my thoughts. My current state of mind is this: I am entitles to freak out, cry, and feel overwhelmed now... but once the babies are in my arms I want to feel like this is a challenge I can tackle.
Adam and I went to Babies R Us today and registered for a few basic things we know we will need... I plan to go back once we know the sexes though. I went because we want to get the baby shower invitations out asap. I know it seems like a lot too soon at only 14 weeks but I will be about 22 weeks at the time of the shower and triplets can come as soon as 28 weeks (though I pray they don't that soon)... and I would like to have fun and not be on bed rest! My mom booked the party to be at Pine Lk CC so I'm pretty excited about that =)
I really can't think of a lot else to say....Adam is doing okay, I know he is feeling overwhelmed by everything too and I am actually so happy he is communicating those feelings with me. Adrienne is doing really great too! ...She says new words everyday =) She can sing her ABC's (somewhat), count to 10, and potty training is still going slowly but smoothly, and she is just overall an amazing little lady (minus her tantrums)!!
Alright, here i am at 14 weeks. Oh, and why not sure you what hormones can do to one's face... =( haha! ughh!!!!
Sam
ReplyDeleteI miss you. You and Adam are going to be great at this. And yes you are totally entitled to freak out, even a little more than freak out. However, I do believe with my whole heart once those little babies are in your arms, you will be able to handle it. And there are for sure going to be frustrating days, but I know that the love they give you and the support from your family and your devoted spirit will manage. Love and miss you! Madonna
Sam I would feel overwhelmed and all that too if I were having triplets! It is common to have all those feelings and thoughts but you are going to do an amazing job and those babies are going to be in good hands and Adrienne is going to love being the big sister to those babies and will be a great help too! I am so excited to find out the sexes and watch your belly grow and see pictures of them and everything! Keep staying positive and hang in there girl!
ReplyDeleteOK SAM! I was bigger then you at 14 weeks with one baby! I can't believe how small you are still! I'm glad Adrienne is doing good and I bet her abc's are so cute even she does jumble some letters! I'm glad Adam and you are communicating you guys will be able to get through all the challenges as long as you keep that up! This will be a lot to tackle but like you said you have a great support system and while things are happening like bed rest, and preemies being around the house you will have all the hands you need! <3 you!
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